When it comes to bow-ties, there are just too many choices to deal with. This applies the same to first time and seasoned buyers. The best way to narrow down what you want is to have a familiarity with the product.

Bow ties differ substantially from the regular ties. As a matter of fact, people who wear bow ties seem more friendlier, relaxed and funnier. They look different and leave a different impact on the community.

Choosing whether to wear them or not can be rather tricky. What to pair them with, even more…

Bow Tie Origins

Originating in 17th century Croatia, bow ties have developed from the cravats worn by soldiers to keep their shirt collars closed. Very soon it became so popular, that even president Abraham Lincoln progressively accepted it.

Bow tie origins: Abraham Lincoln with a bow tie

By the start of the 1900s, bow ties had become an essential component of everyday gentleman’s attire. Then things changed. The accessory remained popular among the academic classes but faded in popularity with the general public.

Today, bow ties can be found worn at cocktail parties, in offices, and at many casual events. In fact, modern men are adapting the bow tie to fit almost any outfit they like.

Bow Tie Styles

Often overlooked and underappreciated, bow tie can be a good alternative to the regular tie. Wearing a wrong tie can swoop in and take over an otherwise excellent suit.

A wrong bow tie, however, is a little less controlling to the image represented. It sits there in its own little world, and for some people may be a better solution. If preparing a regular tie is a headache, of course.

Based on the production model of the bow-tie, there are three different styles you can choose from: Clip-on Bow-Tie, Pre-Tied Bow-Tie and the Self-Tied Bow-Tie.

Below are the types of bow-ties available and how they vary from one another. About the only universally accepted truth with them is that the clip on bow-tie is a last resort option. Everything else? Completely up for grabs.

The Clip-On Bow-Ties


The lack of frustration with a clip-on bow-tie is why sales continue to be high for this particular product.

No matter the level of the user, these bow-ties are absolutely easy to clip on.

And they stay put, even after hours of dancing and mingling. Where they fall short are the available styles and the material. There is also the lack of a personal challenge, but that’s another story.

The most important thing to remember about clip-on bow-ties is that they will always come off center or adjust in weird ways.

Suits bought directly out of the store without any fittings, are made as a one-size fit to all, similar to bow-ties. So even if it never comes off, adjusting it through the night may become more hassle than it’s worth.

The Pre-tied Bow-Ties


Classing it up a little bit from the clip-on is the pre-tied. The fun thing about this type is that it has the same effortless features of the previous type but is better suited to go with all types of suits.

That means less adjusting, and better quality all around.

Beyond the obvious advantages with industry adoption, pre-tied bow-ties work well as a backup when time is running low.

It isn’t uncommon for most suit wearers to have one of these on standby, even with an arsenal of self-tie bow-ties.

They are pretty close in quality to the top of the line self-ties, and every now and then surprise customers by keeping up with trends.

The Self-Tie Bow-Ties


And then there is the cream of the crop, the most professional: self-tie bow-tie. This type include all of the top brand names, fabrics, colors and even experimental designs.

It’s usually referred to as freestyle, meaning you get to tie the bow yourself. This is where the beauty lies.

Everyone has a method that works, so there really is no wrong way. Tying shoes has the same amount of difficulty as doing a self-tie bow tie.

On the downside, there are no magic tricks to getting one of these on. Don’t show carelessness when tying it, put some motion and love instead.

This style is the preferred purchase of serious suit wearers, with everything else considered a downgrade.

Bow Tie Shapes

Do your suit a great favor by always coordinating colors/pattern long before worrying about the shape of the bow tie. Nevertheless, it is normal for every person to find one shape more suitable then others.

So far in modern society, men in suits have been introduced to the butterfly, batwing, big (jumbo) butterfly, diamond point and the slim diamond point.

Bow tie different shapes

These are the varieties and ways to tie your bow-tie yourself as well. Getting the shape right however, isn’t as imperative as the color/pattern.

The Butterfly

The butterfly bow tieThe standard style is of course the butterfly, also known as the thistle shape. It’s the most common choice and is suitable for every occasion.

It’s great for beginners and those who are not certain that a bow tie will suit them well.

The Batwing

Batwing bow tieKnown as the smallest of all types. It means that the end will be only slightly larger the center (the knot).

Batwing bow ties provide clean and symmetrical look. Suitable for slimmer gentleman, even on casual events.

Big Butterfly

Big (Jumbo) butterfly bow tieKnown as Jumbo, the Big Butterfly is similar, yet larger variant of the regular butterfly.

It’s wearable for larger, as well as taller man. Preferred on formal events, or weddings.

Diamond Point

Diamond point bow tieBoth ends on the diamond point bow ties stick beyond the front edge, forming a pointed edge. Ends are visibly asymmetrical, however still stylish and glamorous.

Slim Diamond Point

Slim diamond point bow tieAsymmetrical, just as the regular diamond point. The slim version has a look that is similar to the batwing type. The tips are only slightly larger than the center.

How to Tie a Bow Tie

How to tie a bow tie

Just like tying a regular tie, it’s a skill that every true gentleman must know. Here’s a step-by step guide on how to tie a bow tie:

  1. Start by putting the tie around your neck with both ends even.
  2. Pull one side longer than the other by about an inch and a half.
  3. Bring the long side to the side of your neck, across the short side.
  4. Continue to pull up and around the short end, until you’ve created a loose knot.
  5. Fold the short end into a bow shape by folding it over itself. The fold should be exactly in the middle of the two points of the collar.
  6. Drape the long end over the front, fold, and pass it back through the loop.
  7. Pull halfway through to form the back part of the bow.
  8. Tighten and adjust the knot by pulling on both ends at the same time. Now take a good look in the mirror. How stylish is that!

Remember to spend a little time practicing how to tie your bow ties before the occasion. There’s nothing worse than being in a rush and trying to get a new suit and tie just right at the last minute.

How to Fit a Bow-Tie

The perfect bow does take practice to tie. It might be easy, however still requires repetition.

That said, don’t be tempted to use a ready-tied bow for a formal event. People in the know will spot it a mile away, and it’s considered a huge fashion faux pas. A fixed-size bow tie is useful as it keeps the bow proportional to the size of your neck.

For the best fit, buy a bow tie that is the same size as your shirt collar. Alternatively, you can really push the boat out and have a tailor measure your neck.

How to fit your bow tie

Bow ties look best with fitted shirts and jackets. Bulkier jackets in combination with a bow tie can look rumpled and untidy.

For wing-collared shirts, be sure to tuck the collar wings behind the bow tie. This follows formal dress rules, but is also a practical strategy for keeping your tie firmly in place.


Tying a bow tie is a little less efficient than a normal tie for the unskilled user, which is one of its downfalls.

A bow tie turns out to be an entirely different beast. Even for men that have perfected putting a tie together in mere seconds.

Jay Z wears bow tie

Pretty much like the normal tie, there are a million of ways to show men how to do it. However, only a few are worth using.

Unlike regular clip-on ties (which are already considered bad), a good clip-on-bow tie is just not something that it isn’t worth considering.

Earn your stripes and learn the process, and it’ll be better for the overall look of the suit.

When to Wear a Bow Tie

Black or white tie events are occasions when these neckties are mandatory.

Formal Events

Formal attire: Bow tie and a wedding suit

White tie events are the epitome of formal events, such as state dinners and high-end balls.

These occasions more or less demand that your bow tie is pure silk. Also, check that the texture matches the lapel of your tuxedo jacket.

Black tie events call for black bow ties and include evenings at the opera and formal dinners. Again, match the texture of your pure silk bow tie to the tuxedo’s lapel.

Weddings are another formal event example, where you need to stick to standards and dress codes.

Semi-formal Events

James Bond with a bow-tie

Semi-formal events are where you can have a bit of fun with your bow tie. Play around with different colors and textures.

Keep the rest of your outfit simple because the bow tie makes enough of a statement on its own. Stick to black, navy blue or grey suits and white shirts.

If you’d like to try something out, please do. However, know the boundaries between creativity with errors. After all, suits have rules you need to follow.

Casual Events

Casual attire with a bow tie

Casual events gives you the liberty to try something new and avoid the rules. Mixing things up may explore new fields and style territories.

Batwing bow ties might be the perfect addition to your casual attire. It’s slim and clean, less formal and suitable for every kind of event.

Wearing a Tuxedo

Wearing a Bow tie with Tuxedo

Wearing a tuxedo means that the event is strictly formal. Neckties don’t match with tuxedos pretty well and are considered less appropriate. Especially if the tuxedo has a shawl lapel.

That leaves two options: either wear a bow tie or nothing at all. I will stick with the first option.

Wearing a Pleated Shirt

Wearing a bow tie with pleated shirt

They told you to wear a pleated shirt and a necktie?  That’s the last fashion advice you are going to get from them.

Again, you got two options: change your shirt or replace the necktie with a bow tie. It’s all up to you and that’s the best advice you’re going to get.

Take a Pick

It all comes down to taking the shortcut, or doing it the long way. Saying that there is only one type of bow-tie worth buying is a bit presumptuous. Wear what works the best for an outfit and place everything else in the shadows.

Having a choice between a variety of bow ties should be a privilege and not a concern. Consider the pros and cons of each shape and style, and base your decision on a wide range of options of worlds.

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